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12-07-2019 04:45 PM
12-07-2019 04:45 PM
Re: why can't I cope longer?
It matters to me @Former-Member
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12-07-2019 05:39 PM
12-07-2019 05:39 PM
Re: why can't I cope longer?
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13-07-2019 11:24 PM - edited 13-07-2019 11:53 PM
13-07-2019 11:24 PM - edited 13-07-2019 11:53 PM
Re: why can't I cope longer?
Thanks @outlander, @Faith-and-Hope, #zoe7 , @@
@Appleblossom @ @Adge,
I survived yesterday and spent a 2nd day pretty much 'in bed' watching movies.rf
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13-07-2019 11:26 PM
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Re: why can't I cope longer?
@Former-Member 💞 sometimes surviving is all we can do and that is ok
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14-07-2019 12:09 AM
14-07-2019 12:09 AM
Re: why can't I cope longer?
I am in an energy slump at the moment @Former-Member @and spending a lot of time curled up in bed. I have uni commitments this week, so I am going to have to get up and into it from Monday .... but Monday is not here yet .... so I am staying in bed.
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14-07-2019 12:19 AM
14-07-2019 12:19 AM
Re: why can't I cope longer?
Knowing both of you @Former-Member and @Faith-and-Hope
Ladies who get going when the going is tough ... you need the rest and will start moving soon enough ...
Hugs @outlander
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14-07-2019 07:47 PM
14-07-2019 07:47 PM
Re: why can't I cope longer?
@Faith-and-Hope, i so relate to "ENERGY SLUMPS" & sleeping days away. Does your jet-lag take a while to settle? Wouldn't help. I was so delighted way back when I covertly read you were doing uni studies. I hope you become an art teacher, your mum would be so proud 🌻 Hope you can stay awake through lectures and study 😳 by Monday / tomorrow 🤪
Two days in bed is my limit before I push myself to get moving, even if it hurts. Sunny morning Oday helped 🌞🌀
Aww thanx @Appleblossom, it's true, things do tend to run in cycles should bounce back soon enough. Actually, after 2days pretty much in bed, I got a whole heap done: load a washing√ unpacked x10 boxes bags outa car✓ vacuumed✓ dishes✓ good meal✓ gardening - saw/pruned big dead bush✓ made up a song to God✓ and even took dog for a walk 😁🎉
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14-07-2019 08:02 PM
14-07-2019 08:02 PM
Re: why can't I cope longer?
I don’t usually suffer much from jet lag if I get some sleep on the plane @Former-Member, and which I did, as long as I don’t nap in the first day after I land, and keep meals according to local time, going to bed “as usual”
a time the end of that first day. The last couple of times I have travelled haven’t work out that well though. Maybe cos I’m getting older, or maybe due to a whole lot of other possible reasons.
I try not to let it go past two days, but all this week I came home from uni and just went to bed. It used to be like this when my mr. was being really rants and ragey. Every time he went away for a couple of weeks the kids and I fell in this sort of heap for days. It’s felt like that again, but we spent a full month with him, then had a week’s break, so maybe that’s it, even though he is not as rants and eager as he was ..... plus time difference and season change ..... and get older.
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14-07-2019 08:50 PM
14-07-2019 08:50 PM
Re: why can't I cope longer?
Hi @Former-Member Your tag to me didn't work (previous post). I only saw it by accident just now, when I came on here.
Like you, I struggled through this weekend.
Too much stress last week, with huge plumbing (hot water) expense.
Then the only thing I had to look forward to this weekend (Date), got permanently cancelled.
Emotional setbacks & disappointments worsen my physical fatigue (from ill health) - probably because they trigger dissociation (from trauma)(as psychologist would say).
Hugs...
I'm thinking of you.
Adge
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17-07-2019 07:34 PM
17-07-2019 07:34 PM
Re: why can't I cope longer?
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