Friends, Family & Carers Forum

[Shaz51]

hellloooo my @Jacques , how are you this week xoxo

[Jacques]

hi @Shaz51 my beautiful friend. 

not a great week, a friend told me this week she has been sexually assulted at the start of the year and my partner is suicidal. so a lot going on and not a lot of sleep. 

how is Mr Shaz? how are the photos going? how are you?

[Shaz51]

ohhh noo My friend @Jacques 

sending you hugs and please look after yourself through this xx

has your partner have a health care team that you can call

ohh it is not good that you cannot sleep my specail friend , that does not help you or your partner and friend

sitting with you xx

soo much going on here too my @Jacques , with mr shaz , myself and my mum

@Appleblossom, @outlander , @Former-Member 

[Jacques]

no @Shaz51 all the psychologist, psychiatrists, treating team and councillors haave all abandoned her, she only has me for support

[Shaz51]

ohhh @Jacques 

Mr shaz has no one too only me , sending you understanding hugs xxx

[Appleblossom]

@Jacques 

You are kind and very supportive. Any kind of trauma is hard, but that is extra hard on intimate relationships.  

Hope you are finding ways to care for yourself.  

[Jacques]

hi my virtual mum @Appleblossom 

yes, it is really difficult, and im being very understanding with my partner, she feels guilty but she appreciates me understanding. i don't know why men have to hurt women, i just can't get my head around it. we have a very long way to go for men to respect women. i really hope one day it can happen.

[Shaz51]

@eth  this is @Jacques  thread my friend xxc.

[Jacques]

thanks @Shaz51 🙂

[Shaz51]

Ohhh my @Jacques  sending you hugs my friend xoxo