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30-05-2023 07:17 AM
30-05-2023 07:17 AM
Re: My special place
Sorry to hear, @Snowie 😞
I think linking in with carers' organisations is a great idea, and I hope the doctor can tell you some names at the appt today.
I hear how alarmed and worried you are about the big gap coming up in your support 😞 Am sending wishes for you that you can get through it. 💙
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30-05-2023 09:17 AM
30-05-2023 09:17 AM
Re: My special place
Sleep wasn't ideal last night. Couldn't get to sleep and then when I did couldn't stay asleep.
Will try and have a nap today.
Meant to take mum to doctors but she cancelled her appt. She wants to see a more experienced doctor which she will have to wait a few weeks for. I actually agree with her with this one.
Meant to go do some food shopping but will see how I go.
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30-05-2023 11:59 AM
30-05-2023 11:59 AM
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30-05-2023 12:00 PM
30-05-2023 12:00 PM
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30-05-2023 12:04 PM - edited 30-05-2023 12:10 PM
30-05-2023 12:04 PM - edited 30-05-2023 12:10 PM
Re: My special place
also speak to my aged care. they can help you get services in place like social supports (like accessing the community, taking her shopping, taking her out for walks just social type stuff), assistance to help her with medications, meals to either cook or can help with something like meals on wheels, gardening as well. you dont need the dr to refer you to that either. you can just go online and make a self referral for your mum and they will either come and see in person or do a phone appt to do an assessment
https://www.myagedcare.gov.au/make-a-referral
it can take a while so sometimes the earlier the better
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30-05-2023 12:12 PM
30-05-2023 12:12 PM
Re: My special place
Thanks @outlander
I will look into it and see what is available for her. She is ok at the moment but I do know these things can take a long time to organise so I guess the earlier the better.
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30-05-2023 01:36 PM
30-05-2023 01:36 PM
Re: My special place
your mum might only qualify for 2 hours support but maybe thats what she needs. sometimes they just come in have a cuppa and a chat and do some minor cleaning (dishes, bring in the washing etc) might be less stress for you too
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30-05-2023 02:02 PM
30-05-2023 02:02 PM
Re: My special place
I'm glad you have got help with your pop @outlander
At this stage mum can still do everything for herself. She even still drives so not sure what I will be able to get for her, but I will try anyway.
She is acting like her life is over. I have tried to tell her that isn't the case but she isn't listening to me. But that is nothing new.
I have told her to make an appt. with an experienced doctor but has yet to do that yet. It will be a wait as we haven't got enough Doctors where I live, but I guess everywhere is like that.
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30-05-2023 02:07 PM
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30-05-2023 05:29 PM
30-05-2023 05:29 PM
Re: My special place
Today has gone downhill quite quickly. Keep dissociating.
Reached out for help and just got told the same old thing.
When will chat be back?