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14-02-2017 08:02 PM
14-02-2017 08:02 PM
Empty House
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14-02-2017 08:04 PM
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15-02-2017 11:51 AM
15-02-2017 11:51 AM
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Hi @Robati Do what you need to do to keep body mind and spirit together.
Predictive text can change the meaning of lots of small words ..
Yes children do need their father.
maybe remember the children's birthdays ..
Take care of you for a while
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15-02-2017 12:52 PM
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15-02-2017 01:08 PM
15-02-2017 01:08 PM
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My son is going through mediation at the moment so he can see girls aged seven and five. It is gut wrenching to see what he is going through. She is making it as difficult as possible. I cant begin to imagine how awful this is for you with your ex taking the children overseas. Children need two parents, and you have every right to have contact with them on a regular basis. As hard as it it could you arrange skype time with them? Can you write to the? Surely she cant deny you that. It's not like you are a threat to them. They need to know there dad loves them and care about them.
I know this will be very emotional for you. You need to get support through this whether thats a friend or and a professional. Im thinking of you.
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15-02-2017 02:27 PM
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I forgot to congratulate you on staying away from alcohol. You are showing a great deal of inner strength.
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15-02-2017 06:07 PM
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17-02-2017 01:57 AM
17-02-2017 01:57 AM
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@Robati. I'm so sorry that your children have been taken away from you. You must feel so lost. I'm sure your children would be feeling similarly.
A few years ago I experienced a somewhat similar situation with my de facto partner and baby boy, though not as extreme as they didn't go overseas. At the time I was very unwell with undiagnosed type 2 bipolar disorder, and mixed episodes were making me a bit scary. I came home one day to find that my partner and baby boy were gone. My whole world fell apart at that point. All I wanted was my baby boy back. I loved him more than anything else. Somehow I survived, and soon after I was able to see my baby boy again as long as I sought medical help for my mental health issue.
I know your story is quite different, however I think I can understand how you may be feeling. Given the ages of your children, I'm sure that they would also be missing you terribly and will want to be in contact very soon. You will see your kids again. I think your priorities at the moment are to look after yourself and try to avoid being consumed by negative thoughts. I would recommend talking to someone such as a GP about your situation and how you are feeling. If you don't think this is required at the moment, then please don't hesitate to talk to someone when it is required.
Take care, AF
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17-02-2017 08:09 PM
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19-02-2017 09:27 AM
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