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20-02-2017 05:27 PM
20-02-2017 05:27 PM
Re: Empty House
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21-02-2017 09:44 AM
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21-02-2017 11:56 PM
21-02-2017 11:56 PM
Re: Empty House
Hi @Robati
It sounds like today has been a tough one and I'm so sorry to hear that you are feeling worse. I'm glad that you have the forum to express how you're feeling however and it enables you to reach out on the hard days. I hope that you rest well this evening and get a good sleep.
Shel49
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22-02-2017 12:34 AM
22-02-2017 12:34 AM
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Hi @Robati, I'm sorry to read that you aren't doing so well. It is a very difficult situation that you are in at the moment. I expect you would be feeling uncertain about the future, perhaps anger towards your ex-partner and devastated from losing your kids. Talking about this situation on these forums, with your GP, and with a psychologist eventually, will help ease the pain at least a little.
If the antidepressants that you were prescribed are making you feel unwell then I would recommend going back to your GP and asking for a different antidepressant. The side effects vary a lot between different antidepressants, and I'm sure there would be one that is suitable.
It's very sad that you may not see your kids for 6 months. But, it would give you a chance to work on yourself, if necessary, so that you are in the best state mentally for your kids. Perhaps it may be beneficial to focus mainly on what is best for your kids at the moment.
Unfortunately, sometimes we need a huge shakeup in order to realise that we have a problem. This was the case for me, when after around 4 years into our relationship my partner left with my baby boy. My moods had become so erratic and scary, yet I was unable to see that I had a problem until they left me. Thankfully I was able to find help, and today I'm doing quite well thanks mainly to medication and also to psychological therapy.
Things might feel pretty ordinary for a while, however if you put in the effort to deal with any issues then you will feel better.
Take care, AF
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22-02-2017 12:32 PM
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