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[Former-Member]

Yeah i guess your right @utopia and i guess its there problem not mine

[utopia]

Absolutely

[Former-Member]

Such a disappointment. i dont know how i live with myself 😞 😞

[Former-Member]

how can i be such a disappointment to everyone at the age of 20..i dont really know how to fix it either 😞

[supernova]

Hi @Former-Member,

I always find the phrase 'just get over it' very hurtful and invalidating - it really minimises your experience and disregards the pain you're feeling. I can imagine it felt pretty hard to hear those words when you were genuinely reaching out for support. Remember, there's a big difference between complaining and expressing how you're feeling when you're going through something hard. All the things you have to deal with at the moment sound quite overwhelming, and I think anyone in your situation would feel like they want to talk to someone about it. Maybe it might be helpful to tell us a bit more about what's going on? We're always here to talk it through if you need. 

Hope you're feeling better tonight.

supernova.

[Former-Member]

@supernova 

i dont know what to do...

i dont think im worth listening to anymore anyway 😞

[Former-Member]

 @supernovahow can i be such a dissapointment.
i get told to just get over it, stop complaining, you whinge alot, you complain alot which i never speak of anything wrong with me unless they genuinely need to no.
nothing is good atm. my mum and my sisters hate me which hurts the most, i can never do righ by them on any account. nothing i do is ever ggo enough.
my mum hates me and i can never please her.
i have no friends and the last ones that i did have they just pushed me away and said ring someone else.

the person im caring for probably thinks i do the crappiest job and i dont blame them..

everytime i even think about doing something for myself including apppointments i get shot down and then i guess i do it to myself so its like getting hit with two stones