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07 Jun 2023 09:26 PM
07 Jun 2023 09:26 PM
Oh how cool. Never thought to have use a specific name day.
Ive never had a self care thing for a Wednesday.
I've decided to declare it, Annoy my 15yo teenager son" 🤣
Think I'll start singing in the background while he's on his PS5 with mates 🤣🤣
08 Jun 2023 09:28 AM
08 Jun 2023 09:28 AM
Hello @Shaz51 @calmsoul @Abner @Former-Member @icarusandthesun
Love reading your self-care ideas.
Wednesday for me is the day I do my art therapy course via zoom. It's completely therapeutic even though I'm learning how to working with others. At the end of the day I'm so calm. Heaven.
Hanami
08 Jun 2023 09:51 AM
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09 Jun 2023 09:10 PM
09 Jun 2023 09:10 PM
Something I learnt in therapy and found useful was the PACE activity - writing a list of things that support my wellbeing, divided in the categories of 'Physical' (movement, body care, etc.), 'Achievement' (things I can achieve, no matter how small), 'Connection' (i.e. social), and 'Enjoyment' (eg. interests, pleasure, relaxation). When I'm looking for ways to improve my mood or care for myself, I can turn to this list and reflect on what areas I may need to focus on more, as well as get ideas for things I can engage in. I find this particularly useful when my emotions are heightened and I'm struggling to think of what I could do to help myself feel better.
I've worked hard to think of lots of things to add to my list, and just some of my options include: jigsaw puzzles, taking a bath, visiting the library, participating in forums, doing stretches, listening to music, and planning my reading list.
10 Jun 2023 05:57 PM
10 Jun 2023 05:57 PM
11 Jun 2023 08:58 PM
11 Jun 2023 08:58 PM
Hi @Shaz51
I just wanted to reach out to say thank you so much for creating such a wonderful thread - it’s such a great idea 💜
My well feels a little bit dry at the moment and so I’m going to watch something light hearted on Netflix in the hope that this will help to replenish it 😊
Thank you so much again for gently reminding us about the importance of taking care of ourselves 💜
Take care,
ShiningStar 💜
11 Jun 2023 09:06 PM
11 Jun 2023 09:06 PM
Hope you feel a bit better soon my @ShiningStar xx
Hello @Oaktree , @puzzlingdino , @Abner , @Snowie ❤️
14 Jun 2023 04:15 PM
14 Jun 2023 04:15 PM
@Shaz51 @ShiningStar @puzzlingdino @Abner @Snowie @tyme @hanami
Well it’s Wednesday again, what wonderful ideas are we going to come up with for self care this week. I am going to buy a facial mask. I thought of this last Thursday but I haven’t actually bought it yet. Going to the shops tonight so I will try and remember to get it then.
Meggle
14 Jun 2023 05:06 PM
14 Jun 2023 05:06 PM
@Shaz51 @ShiningStar @Abner @puzzlingdino @Snowie @tyme @hanami
I actually have a file with self care options in it around here somewhere. One of my favourite things is lighting a scented candle and staring at the flame. It’s a form of mindfulness I guess. Puts you in the moment.
Meggle
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