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06-01-2017 09:55 AM
06-01-2017 09:55 AM
starting to come to terms that i have BPD
hi im new here and i think i have BPD things have gotten worse last few years to point were i no something not right and so do the ones close to me to after reading up on BPD there was not a sign or a symptom i don’t feel or relate to was quite scary as i have been so lost and confused the last few years to why i am the way i am would like to hear from others that have BPD as i am going through the process now for diagnosis
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06-01-2017 11:58 AM
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07-01-2017 03:23 PM
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Re: starting to come to terms that i have BPD
Hi @jai
welcome to the forums!
i am glad to hear that you are going through the process for diagnosis as I am assuming that this also means that you will be directed toward help at the end of the process?
there are many people on here who share that diagnosis (assuming it is accurate) I wonder if anyone has any reflections on what it was / is like for them during the initial stages? or advice about how to manage possible obstacles? @tinnx @BlueBay @jist0508 @BillambaI also found this thread about how to tell loved ones and dealing with BPD here
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08-01-2017 01:48 AM
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08-01-2017 07:49 PM
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08-01-2017 08:00 PM
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Re: starting to come to terms that i have BPD
Hi @jai
I was diagnosed with BPD along with depression, anxiety, ptsd and childhood sexual abuse almost 7 yrs ago, when I was in my forties.
To me i had never heard of BPD, so I googled it and boy was I scared.
Like @Former-Member I don't like the label and sometimes I tell people it's an "emotional regulation disorder" because I can't regulate my emotions.
DBT (dialetical behaviour therapy) is a type of therapy that helps people with BPD to learn distractions skills, distress tolerance among other things. It is a long term commitment therapy. I did do this for one year, it was quite costly and i had to travel an hour each week. In the end i did learn some new things but my therapist stopped working there so i had no one else to do the therapy. Hence now I am still struggling. It's not easy to put into practice what you learn from a book and a therapist.
I wish you all the best, keep chatting on here. It's a great forum.:)
@Former-Member (Hugs and love to you my friend) I just read your post and i felt really sad for you.
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08-01-2017 10:41 PM
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Hugz to you xox