Lived Experience Forum

[Ali11]

Fingers crossed for that new phone soon @outlander  Tomorrow sounds like it'll be a nice day, horses are wonderful to spend time with, except for the clean up  Trying to get some things done around the house but I'll be popping in here during the afternoon each day, it's lovely catching up with everyone on here and seeing the love everyone has for each other

[outlander]

yeh they are ok to be around i guess @Ali11 dont really enjoy it much anymore though.
its good to see you around when you can but no procrastinating to much!

[Ali11]

That would be about right, @MDT, maybe a month or two. Such a great community, I love the support everyone gives each other on here 

[Ali11]

Tried to stop procrastinating today @outlander, but decided to put it off until tomorrow  What has changed that stopped you enjoying the horses as much as you did?

[outlander]

lol @Ali11 we are good at procrastinating here on the forums 🤭

it just became a chore, since i dont ride much now its expected that i help at events and things now too. it becomes rather boring i suppose.

[Ali11]

That makes sense @outlander, without the joy of riding regularly, it would be hard to stay passionate about the admin/management side of events. Do you have a lot of friends in that community? 

[outlander]

no, i dont have any friends @Ali11 i have people that i know but not really friends.

[Ali11]

Socialising in specialist communities like that can be difficult at times, can't it? There's the shared love for horses, but that doesn't mean people will be a match as a friend for anything outside of the events. A friend here was saying the same thing about their basketball league recently

[outlander]

i dont really fit in anywhere anyway @Ali11 unless im helping someone im basically ignored in every aspect of my life.

[MDT]

You'll find your people soon mate.
That much is true @outlander