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21-03-2019 09:52 PM
21-03-2019 09:52 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
Oh dear @Shaz51 ... Your poor Mum, re the fall. It will add to her feelings of vulnerability. Good to hear they are keeping her in hospital tonight. For observation, if nothing else.
Try not to worry Shaz, its a major transition for her. And be content knowing that you have put as many safeguards in place for her as possible. Give yourself a break. Not only do you need a break, you so very much deserve it.
Sherry 😇💕💕
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21-03-2019 10:01 PM
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22-03-2019 10:36 AM
22-03-2019 10:36 AM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
@Shaz51 wrote:very good point @Smc
@Appleblossom, @Owlunar , @Faith-and-Hope , @Former-Member
mum had a fall today and bump her head , so they are keeping her in hospital overnight
awwwwwww
Aw @Shaz51
That's not good - you Mum is very vulnerable now and I am glad they kept her in hospital overnight - for her own sake she needs observation - poor sweet old lady - she is getting past it and perhaps we will all get there one day unless the inevitable gets us first
She might want to do things for herself but she has just had a hip replacement - and that's a big deal - perhaps with all this transitional care she will see another way rather than doing too much herself then wanting you to do it
I do understand - my mother went through this with her mother - it was a really tough time and my sort of collapsed when Gran finally went into a nursing home - we do have to consider more than just one person's desires here
I really care - this is me being protective again - and being in an older age bracket myself I understand your Mum too
Love from your second Mum
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22-03-2019 01:04 PM - edited 22-03-2019 01:09 PM
22-03-2019 01:04 PM - edited 22-03-2019 01:09 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
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22-03-2019 07:11 PM
22-03-2019 07:11 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
Ohhhhh @Former-Member , @Owlunar , @outlander , @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @Faith-and-Hope
mum is back home again this afternoon
she is happy to be home again , she has a meals on wheels meal tonight xxxx
Ohhhh Mr shaz got the appt time mixed up , then I had to go for mum who had a fall , I meet the ambulance
10 minutes later mr shaz turnes up and says he he not doing weekly trepary , and he is doing ok except for the weight gain
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22-03-2019 07:44 PM
22-03-2019 07:44 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
@Former-Member, @Owlunar
I had to leave mr haz with his MI appt a mum had a fall and i went to meet the ambulance and mum to go to the hospital xx
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22-03-2019 08:03 PM
22-03-2019 08:03 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
oopppps mking mistakes for friday @Former-Member
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22-03-2019 08:15 PM
22-03-2019 08:15 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
Is this a further fall @Shaz51 ?
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22-03-2019 08:21 PM
22-03-2019 08:21 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
yes @Former-Member , mum is back home again tonight after falling yesterday
mr shaz has cancelled all MI therpary and everything else
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22-03-2019 08:54 PM
22-03-2019 08:54 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
Thinking I am getting days mixed up and that the fall/appt yesterday @Shaz51.
Yikes ... Mr Shaz cancelling help ... no surprise ... Mr Darcy has had mixed experiences with therapists, he is waiting for an appt with a new one.