@Dreamy 

I agree.  Far from a legend.  Ive said this before, but I don't know most of what you've been through, but I know enough to know what it must take to stay afloat.  A legend would have given up a long time ago.  Not only do you stay afloat, but you support others and always put others first. you passed legend status a long time ago.

I know you don't see it, but I see it like being a super fast swimmer but you can't get going because those a#$hole kids keep divebombing you in the pool!  If life ever gave you a break and just left you in peace for a while, it's scary to think what you would achieve if unleashed.