Dear @mike_m 

Are you in contact ? 

How are you ? 

"I understand your concern. It's tough when someone you care about refuses help, especially when it could significantly improve their quality of life.
Remember, it's ultimately her decision to seek treatment. While you can't force her, you can continue to offer your support and encouragement. Sometimes, people need time to come to terms with a diagnosis and the implications of treatment.

I wonder if

It feels like there needs to be a second opinion ?

Perhaps you could suggest alternative coping strategies or stress-relief techniques that she might find helpful. You could also gently remind her that seeking professional help doesn't mean she's weak or incapable. It's a sign of strength to acknowledge a problem and take steps to address it.
Ultimately, it's important to take care of yourself as well. Setting boundaries and avoiding enabling behavior can be crucial. Remember, you can't control her choices, but you can control your own reactions."