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  • Author : CRyan
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06 Feb 2024 05:04 AM
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Hi - I am 47 year old mother to 2 girls - now 13 and 9 and have struggled with BPD and anxiety from age 23. I am currently trying to do DBT program, see my psychiatrist and a psychologist for support. I always find January or changes with routine the hardest and I have had to have an inpatient admission into a clinic and hold off the DBT Program as it runs as outpatient only. I am an intelligent, caring and kind person when I am well, and managed to hold a job as a Careers Adviser in university part time for 14 years, study and complete a full  commerce law degree and teaching degree in my early life before having a family.

I feel for all those on this forum with BPD and I also feel relief there is a community of people who struggle to manage their emotions and this challenging disorder. 

Even with my condition and how I am triggered at home, my husband has been supportive and I get up and go home from inpatient care to be there while they get ready for school. I try to be a presence even in the background when I am really unbalanced or experiencing an episode of emotional dysregulation. 

Today has been a hard day as I did the morning and helped my 9 year old going into a new school in Year 5 but had to give in and rest at the clinic. I want to do evenings as well but it is too exhausting right now and my medication is being reviewed. I just wanted to say hello and to acknowledge other parents who are also struggling with BPD ๐Ÿ˜” we are all trying our best and that's all we can do ๐Ÿ™

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