Mum had the hide to say to me that she must be where I get all my problems from, that she must have adhd! Mum doesn’t get it! @tyme 

I couldn’t cope in her brain. She has to look for signs in everything. Any conversation with her is hard to follow. She has bags for different days, different outfits. Can’t wear the same thing some place you’ve worn it before. But she is a kind hearted person. Just does your head in. 

The family is huge so it’s always difficult. But the one whose birthday it is is the most difficult to deal with. Shame I’m not working. 

Dad has anxiety, mum has depression, the birthday one has depression. I have a cousin with bipolar 2, my aunty said mine isn’t as bad as his because I work. 

I think my brother may have bipolar but I’m pretty sure he has adhd. 

That’s just one side of the family. None of it’s diagnosed but I can see it. 

That’s the way it should be. Pay everything yourself and don’t expect it. When we were on holidays they would pay for one nights dinner and then I’d pay the next night. So that worked out fairly. My brother doesn’t even offer. Just expects it.