Hi @Powderfinger 

I think you are right. Few narcissists believe they are narcissists. It is my understanding that some people still choose to love and live with them by setting a lot of boundaries. But stalking you and controlling you sends warning signals to me. It is hard to heal such wounds and to feel safe again. And I personally would hate to live with constant mind games.  I only hope time will heal some of those wounds and you find the right person for you. Sharing on sites like this may be the first step to beginning to heal. I hope so. Take care,

lost9