@Lost9 

Thank you for sharing. I'm sorry for what your brother and yourself went through. I can only imagine how very painful and difficult your brothers healing and recovery has been. I don't think I will ever fully heal. 

I disagree that they can't help who they are. It can be diagnosed and they can learn to not use the narcissism. They just don't believe they have a problem. To them they are perfect. It is impossible for them to acknowledge there is a problem with them most times and it is extremely rare for a narcissist to go get a diagnosis. How dare you even insinuate there is an issue. I was the only one that said horrible things about her. I know that's not actually true. Lots of people say alot about her. 

PF