Hi @Powderfinger I read your post. Thank you for sharing. You have been through the mill but you can see that she gaslighted you, that she was manipulative and far too possessive. You had the strength to end the relationship. Good for you! Well done!! You deserve to find the person who will value you for yourself. Someone not so controlling and manipulative. But of course, as you have indicated, you have to heal first. This may take some time. I hope you eventually find the happiness you deserve. Lost9