Dear @Powderfinger ,

i admire how you are getting through this and have a plan for a few days I am glad you have a friend to go to. 

I am sorry if I offended you and you felt that I was telling you what to do.  It was not my intention, I was just trying to respond to some of the hints you said and I see that was not what you needed at that time.

you are showing remarkable personal insight and resilience.  This week shall pass, and you can make your home yours .

my thoughts are with you as you go through this distressing time

peri