@ENKELI 

Thanks very much ❤️💞

You also help me because of what's happening in your work compared to when you relax at home at night. Life can be tough hey. 

 unless we are professionals, 

We have no right to sit around discussing others  of  what something means in personality stuff and what we think is glaringly obvious. 

But you are right. 

What is the most significant red flag for me to keep away from is  someone who shows no empathy. 

I'm so bad with boundaries..... I'm too embarrassed to tell you what I did today but two people helped me.