Exactly @Zoe7, for women who have HIV or Hep C every time they get their periods they're reminded they have that condition, everytime Valentine's Day comes around I'm reminded most people don't want to love me or be loved by me, it's not that they don't love me, but that at least initially they don't want to, and that in itself is painful, we already have enough painful days, we don't need another. I think it's time to tell the world and celebrate our dislike of Valentine's Day.