hi @TAB

but then, what is a 'good' topic?

Surely this is a safe space in which to share grief. I know the turmoil, I know it isn't straight forward, grief has several facets, and flips through them over and over, and everyone travels the path in their own way.

Some grieve privately, some wish to share, it somehow eases the pain.

@BPDSurvivor @Clawde Some of us are just very sensitive , I don't know. When one connects mutually with another, human or other animal, separation is hard.

I still have wafts of grief over a year after losing a cat and a dog unexpectedly.

Lots and lots of quiet hugs to you both. I truly understand. Hugs oxoxoxox