yes, have done the 'obliteration' thing before @Dimity  .. yeah cant do course here, cant even do it where told myself I was going,  might do something short term, understand what you mean re having to start again with 'things' but some I just bought out of convenience, ie because were already in house ..so they arent really suitable for me, more like a family re size as in fridge and lounge, esp if start having to move more often, I will be getting some money within 12 months that I may be able to buy some sort of accomadation with, so maybe 1-2 places in the meantime,depends how much storage costs, usually not cheap if in demand

thanks for chatting. You make some good points. Okay Goodnight