Thanks @Historylover 

You can only be the best person possible for you - I am sure there are people who think I am a grumpy old woman and that's okay for me - I am a complicated person and I speak my mind.

But I try to live the best life possible which means I care for other people

My birthday is on 6th July and my specialist told me that I have arthritis because I have had too many birthdays - well - that is a joke and I get it - and I am okay with it - but my last birthday seems to make me feel ancient for some reason

You do deserve better but there is not a lot we can do about other people - they are what they are -

Sending my best thoughts

Dec