I believe..the art of relationship is a learned quality.. nurtured during our upbringing. I saw a documentary on tv ...a child who grew up in a broken family..and didn't get proper attention and tender loving care from her parents, ended up getting involved in unhealthy relationships, married a narcissist, being abused at home and at work, ended up being lonely till the end of her life. Then..her lifestory was reversed..starting with loving parents, healthy and cheerful siblings etc..having a good boyfriend who became his spouse..and the cycle repeats for her children and grandchildren.

So @eudemonism ..i believe.. accepting whats been written in our lifestory is fundamental in order for us to make peace with ourselves and our past and not feeling angry or sorry for what had happened cuz the livestory and the fate of our parents were written even before we were born..so did their parents'. Only when we have conquered that..we can find ways and means of understanding and improving our lives ahead and for the next generation.

I always believed.. everything happens for a reason..never futile. And there are always blessings in disguise in each. Its all up to us to seek and to ponder..what life has to offer... to mold ourselves into survivors.,😢💐💐💐🦄