Thanks for that encouragement @Appleblossom. The fact that two of my kids are not on meds despite being diagnosed with bipolar and ADHD proves it is possible though i am aware they too are having hard time dealing with colleagues, lecturers even family members. They tend to be loners like me and apply that Touch N Go principles like i do. Am trying to give them as much space but at the same time keeping intouch at least once awhile via sms or visits. We as mothers can only guide them as much as we can..not being too hard on ourselves at the same time. Be their friends rather than protectors lke we used to be when they were small.🌷🌷

Its a great feeling having u posting again @eudemonism. I hope @Former-Member will be here too like she used to. One must really hv that determination and persistence as u do @eudemonism... to go cold turkey on everything at one go. And for having done it over two weeks and still going strong is truly a miracle. To be around people that uplift us..and see even the slightest potential we have is the only way to build our lives back again. They say..total stangers can make good partners and i do believe in that. Closing some doors..not because we are rude or ignorant but simply because...the doors no longer lead somewhere...🦄