Hi, I'd just like to say too everyone on this thread. We all know what we need and want. And i think it comes down to us. Too make it happen for us. Because all the help and support in the world may just be an act of providing another with what they need and want. Which we foolishly abide too. Not saying that it dont serve a purpose to them. And on the contrary. Also to us. If we have this system in place for ourselves... but ultimately... you gotta get what you need and want from a situation or its gonna end up working out better for the others involved in the scenario... this is a huge factor in why good help is hard too find... because they have other ideas about what it should be and look like. While they taking the cream off the top for themselves. In a nasty, narcissistic, manipulative, controlling and deceptive type of way...