no worries at all @Mustang67 and don't worry - i totally understand it can be hard to remember the guidelines sometimes, even i forget and have to re-read is at times. 

the way we all remember things can be different sometimes, esp if traumatic experiences were involved in our lives. that's annoying that your ex didn't believe you, glad you're not bothered by it anymore!! 

ohh its like your sisters are your childhood memory bank! are you close with your older sisters?