@outlander - I'm a bit out of the loop with what you and Snowie shared, and that's not a request to know either. I just can't comment on what I don't know.

Crying is a release outlander; don't try to stop it. And shutting down won't help either. Whatever is bothering you will still be there next time. You know we don't mind if you vent-this is your safe space to be vulnerable and let out those, fears, concerns, worries, thoughts. You'll always have someone willing to listen. We don't always need advice, just a listening, caring ear can suffice.

And not everything we go through needs to be part of our growth. Sometimes life just hurts in that moment, and we need to be held in a space of comfort and safety until we are okish again and the volume of the intense feelings are turned down.