Thank you for being able to put this out on the forums to work through. @ArraDreaming @Oaktree 

Sometimes, we don't understand why people behave the way they do, and that's why seeking clarification is so important, especially in text-based communication.

Whilst it may take time to see both sides, I'd encourage you to step back a little for some time so that this situation can be properly evaluated. 

We are here to support you both.

For now, we will lock this thread until later this afternoon.