@Jayneinpain 

Hi Jayne

Your recent experience with the police seems to have been very positively affirming. I do remember the character of Sulley, but did not know his name. The way that you have reversed the role of the monster and the doll sounds like a major transition in your life.

Personal health responds so readily to self awareness and mindfulness. Evidently expressed through your smile. Your observation about accepting the health issues we have, both the good aspects and the ones that we cannot change is, I think appropriate, instead of using our energy in an often futile attempt to change what may be unchangeable. Acceptance of self is, I believe, so important. This way we do not squander and waste our life energy. That does not mean that we should never try to change anything, but rather, be judicious.

I think that your observation;

“that you have to be in the right place emotionally, mentally and physically (and perhaps spiritually) for things to be able to change.”

is true. I would extend that to circumstance, environment, and personalities. If all those factors are involved, imagine the possible mathematical permutations that influence success or otherwise in a counselling format. The two people, being the client and the counsellor contribute only a part in the process toward the possible outcomes. All the more important that, if we do want to change anything in our lives that we work to find the best possible facilitator for our purposes. We then need to think and feel that our goals are worthwhile and achievable. Otherwise, I can only imagine that it would be best to leave them alone and live our lives around what we cannot change.

It's great to hear that you have found yourself suitable accommodation. From the description of the way you would like it to be, it will not be just functional, but rather a place that you feel welcomes you when you arrive home.

Geraldton is now an oasis in the trip north from Perth. When I went there 30 years ago, it seemed to me to be a place that was all but forgotten. The aging railway infrastructure, including the line and buildings dominated the front of the town, then extended onto the port and wharves. It has changed a great deal since then and is now a rather pleasant and enjoyable place to visit. As you describe, the Dome cafe is in the centre of the town beach and the harbour and wharves seem to have retreated and are, at least interesting. The museum and art gallery are focal points in the city.

Kangaroo Island, I remember from a scouting exercise when I was very much younger. It was an interesting hike along the length of the island. I would imagine that the whole atmosphere of the island has changed since then, from what I see on news and travel programs.

I do like to keep contact with the people with whom I have corresponded on the forum so I will look forward to hearing about your progress and would be pleased to respond, as appropriate, to your posts.

With Best Wishes

HenryX