I really appreciated the comments about the positive traits of BDP. Until I was properly diagnosed and was able to lock in regular therapy sessions and do DBT my borderline had run havoc in my life. While it's still a challenge now I have much greater acceptance and awareness about myself and my supports do to. I don't fight myself like I used to but rather accept that at times my bdp WILL get the best of me and that I have the skills to lessen it's destructive effect on my life as long as I remember my training.