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13-02-2017 05:22 AM
13-02-2017 05:22 AM
Sense of shock an loss
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13-02-2017 08:46 AM
13-02-2017 08:46 AM
Re: Sense of shock an loss
Hi and Welcome to the forum 😊
I'm very sorry to hear about the most recent turn of events in your personal life. The thing that strikes me most is your open acknowledgement of your behaviour, which to me indicates that you possess insight. Having insight is the first step towards resolving your own behavioural issues. Many people do not possess this. They never, ever see that they were in the wrong and shift blame externally. It takes courage to admit that you are an "angry person" and that your behaviour was a contributing factor towards what has happened. The fact that you are showing remorse and can see your shortcomings is the best you can do for now, but this may not be enough to convince your partner that similar scenarios will not happen again in the future. The most positive thing you can do for yourself and your family is to seek some sort of professional help (e.g. psychologist) for your anger issues. Your wife and children need to have a safe home environment in all respects. Children can be profoundly affected if they live in a domestic environment which is studded with parental disagreement. If you seek help, and show a genuine and sustained committment to work on your problems, your partner may be more forgiving and consider returning. You may also wish to seek some legal advice regarding her leaving the country with your children without your consent. I'm not too sure about this but it may constitute what is known as "international parental abduction".
All the best
Janna
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13-02-2017 09:42 AM
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Re: Sense of shock an loss
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