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12 Sep 2021 04:30 PM
12 Sep 2021 04:30 PM
I decided today to laugh about the narcissist I was with. Narcissists are no laughing matter though. I decided to laugh because sometimes their insanity is so full on that you just need to laugh about it. Create some humor from a really terrible thing. If it was at a victims expense, I wouldn't though.
I saw this today and rather than even get into it psychologically, I was just like WOW.
The narcissist liked this post.
I thought wow you know, you are a narcissist yourself, like a post about a narcissistic parent, you have three kids, not much of a close relationship with the two of them, the other one you have really trained to become a younger version of you in many ways. My goodness. Not to mention this is on a domestic violence social media page.
Tomorrow I have court for my restraining order application to be heard. I truly just want to be done with this now. I need the restraining order. I want to know that I'm going to be left alone so she cannot just pop up in my life if and when she wants to.
PF.
12 Sep 2021 10:15 PM
12 Sep 2021 10:15 PM
13 Sep 2021 08:37 AM
13 Sep 2021 08:37 AM
Thanks @BPDSurvivor
14 Sep 2021 10:00 PM
14 Sep 2021 10:00 PM
How are you @Powderfinger ?
My thoughts are with you, especially after today.
Is there something you can do for yourself tonight in terms of self-care?
14 Sep 2021 10:52 PM
14 Sep 2021 10:52 PM
I'm not good. I'm assuming you mean the restraining order? Court was yesterday. Thanks for thinking of me though.
I'm heavily depressed. I usually go pretty quiet and just stick to myself. I like to be by myself when I'm heavily depressed. It just makes my life easier. Each to their own.
PF
15 Sep 2021 08:07 AM
15 Sep 2021 08:07 AM
Yes, I was referring to court. I totally hear the difficulty of it all, and hence wanted to check-in.
Can you think of something kind you can do for yourself today?
It's sunny here in Melb. Bit cool though. I'll be going for a walk today.
BPDSurvivor
15 Sep 2021 09:29 AM
15 Sep 2021 09:29 AM
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