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28-08-2019 07:10 PM
28-08-2019 07:10 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
@Shaz51 it can be discouraging.
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28-08-2019 07:15 PM
28-08-2019 07:15 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
it can be @Former-Member
not sure what brought this on !!
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28-08-2019 07:32 PM
28-08-2019 07:32 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
Perhaps Mr Shaz will talk when he is ready @Shaz51 hopefully will be short lived.
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28-08-2019 07:36 PM
28-08-2019 07:36 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
saved the day @Former-Member
mr shaz tried to put a bird dvd on to see what bird what was at mum`s
he could not put the dvd on
I put it on and he has found the bird he was looking for
I will have to stop thinking it is me @Former-Member
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28-08-2019 07:44 PM
28-08-2019 07:44 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
Snap @Shaz51 the twin has technology troubles too and I have to go to his rescue.
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28-08-2019 08:05 PM
28-08-2019 08:05 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
I have long struggled with never saying the right thing and being shut down .. think its why I turned to forum.
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28-08-2019 08:09 PM
28-08-2019 08:09 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
It can sting when that happens @Appleblossom
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28-08-2019 08:14 PM
28-08-2019 08:14 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
Its happened for so long ... i dont really feel it as a sting anymore ... mostly I save my breathe ... just have to insist I am heard at times when it is really necessary. The forum has helped me not implode.
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28-08-2019 08:33 PM
28-08-2019 08:33 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
the twin has technology troubles too and I have to go to his rescue., yes @Former-Member
sending you understanding hugs @Appleblossom
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29-08-2019 09:45 AM
29-08-2019 09:45 AM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
Waking up during the night and not getting back to sleep can be stress too @Shaz51 and you have a lot on your plate right now
And there are times when it seems we can say or do anything right - sometimes a partner can get edgy and rub it in - and cause technology issues - ooh that can bite
But today - I have enough to do but not overwhelmed - it's just not my day today - I have given up for the time being - it will be easier to catch up later - I can't blame anyone else when I live by myself
My computer went on strike last night - annoying - it would not connect to the wifi - everything was in place - then I got a banner telling me I was being disconnected in 5 minutes - then 2 and then I was - but got back later and found I had gone back to the beginning with the games I play
I know I have to start on NBN - but it's all working today - I will do that when I get back from holidays
But about your carers' work @Shaz51 @Appleblossom @Former-Member @greenpea @Former-Member - I care for myself and oh gee! - I can get irritated at times when my back is sore - having someone else to care for - well - let's say - I really feel for you all and other carers as well
All the best
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