New to this. Struggling a bit.

[Noyb]

I have supported her for the past 25 years. It has not been easy. But the last 18 months have been unbearable. Tried getting help but she refused. What more could I do. If someone doesn't want help then there is not much you can do. So now I'm looking after my daughter who has suffered the past 17 years in house that is so toxic. Sounds selfish. But I don't want her to be another statistic.

[Former-Member]

Hi @Noyb 

I feel your wisdom.

I feel your caring nature.

It is hard to talk because not all replies are positive. Some go through different situations.

You show deep thought in your decision.

Sounds like you can save 2. You and your daughter.

One hopes your partner sees the two of you trying to go forward.

I am sure your partner is welcome to join you both.

It is their choice.

Pick up your own pieces. It is not selfish to move forward.