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29 Jan 2024 10:56 PM
29 Jan 2024 11:23 PM
29 Jan 2024 11:23 PM
Evening @Shaz51 @Faith-and-Hope @Glisten @TAB
I have felt
somewhat a nuisance clogging music time! 😬
🤞🏼store can help tomorrow, tech issues rather major I do have. Nothing like an x to stack the plate of issues up. And call me the paranoid one.
I have built some fine inner resilience against the odds but man does it drain energy!
Thank you Shaz51 for tagging me here, I do rather like the idea of being far and away!! 😊💫
29 Jan 2024 11:33 PM
29 Jan 2024 11:59 PM
29 Jan 2024 11:59 PM
I read this and thought omg the levels of endurance. I do hope he keeps on the other direction for your sake. Gosh you know I think the sad thing it can take years but they all seem to work it out in the end, I mean the new party. Because the beast always repeats a pattern.
I honestly think many women persist because we believe we can help.
I now post the help sign on my own head first!!
Nailed on- with warning if you resemble key traits or x, y, z best you jump on the next ship home! 😅
@tony’s
honestly my humour on the whole conundrum!
Well good people’s I am off to my appointment tomorrow. Yippee.
@TAB I have an outing of sorts, not work. Exciting when it’s not work! 😅
Good nite all x
30 Jan 2024 12:02 AM
30 Jan 2024 12:02 AM
30 Jan 2024 09:21 AM - edited 30 Jan 2024 11:22 AM
30 Jan 2024 09:21 AM - edited 30 Jan 2024 11:22 AM
Thanks @Faith-and-Hope ♥
Always a pleasure to see you.
Bring on the long awaited day you can wipe your hands of the ex. Such a long and difficult saga its been for you and your baby dragons. Soon 😊
@Former-Member you clearly have a great understanding of the narcissistic mind and life with one. Sorry to hear. It surely is a difficult life, full of highs and lows. Have a great outing today. 😊🌷
I am spending the day doing some lead training for my young puppy Hannah. 🐶 Was meant to have hydrotherapy, but pool is closed for repairs.
Emelia
30 Jan 2024 09:46 AM
30 Jan 2024 09:46 AM
@Faith-and-Hope that made me laugh out loud. Sorry for your pain. I admire your use of a thread title to help a situation - lol it is awesome.
Tears of laughter. Apologies, thoughts and prayers.
G
30 Jan 2024 10:11 PM
30 Jan 2024 10:11 PM
Still battling with workcover @Faith-and-Hope and I am supposed to go back to work next week - haven't had a holiday or been able to go into work to get things sorted so not looking forward to next week 😢
31 Jan 2024 01:39 AM
31 Jan 2024 01:39 AM
Thanks so much @Former-Member @Emelia8 @Glisten ❤️❤️❤️ I hear voices of understanding coming from lived experience !!! It’s sad, but it does make us more powerful in the longer term. ex’s newby hasn’t behaved well, and has cost my baby dragons a lot of pain along with me, so it’s hard to feel sorry for her, but I do know there is suffering ahead.for her too.
Oh no @Zoe7 😔 I am presuming you will be able to communicate about it, and others will pitch in to help you ? It has been such a lovely school, and I’m sure they treasure you ❣️
31 Jan 2024 11:30 AM
31 Jan 2024 11:30 AM
@Faith-and-Hope You will teach your baby dragons 🐉 how to cope with this situation through your actions.
There is no excuse for disrespect, bad manners, poor behaviour and injustice.
The only thing I can control is ME. MY self talk and MY actions.
I control NOTHING else.
You will teach your babies they NOT defined by life experiences.
Always, always look inward.
Big hugs
G
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