Hi @Former-Member
I am feeling okay today - I got very cold yesterday and found it hard to warm up but the spring weather here can be tricky and turn - even a sunny day can be colder than we think - wind-chill 😞
I have my home-help change the bed every Friday and every second Friday I have my Queen Sized Doona covers changed and I need my helpers to hang them out - too big and awkward for me - but the rest of the stuff I hang out myself - which reminds me - I need to get my clothes line fixed - I hung the washing inside through the winter and it dried in the warm air in the lounge - and I forgot the clothes line had broken at some stage - really awkward to use
So you are back to Sydney and your Dad tomorrow - you have been up at your old place for some weeks - longer than I thought - and so many decisions about stuff - there is always stuff - either we deal with it bit by bit as some kind of habit or all at once when it becomes necessary but there are still decisions - decisions and more decisions
It's hard pushing ahead and through etc when you have so much pain - I know - we can't measure each other's pain - we have to deal with what we have - we can have empathy and commisserate but it still hurts a lot - or a little - or whatever - and it can make the task at hand harder
Stay strong yourself - I likewise pray for you - I will be thinking of you driving home so take breaks and have a rest and a snack and coffee - nap if you need to - that part will be over I think because today or tomorrow is the settlement. I hope the task is done
So - take breaks on the way back - this is the next stage of a difficult time for you - I will be thinking of you - praying and hoping all goes well
Dec
