Hello @SJD_1 

Sounds like hell. 

Cant say much atm, but maybe work out the bottom line in accomodation and work up from there.  Sounds like your family is out. Cant say about house ownership, as it sounds complicated. So is there a way to find small studio apartment or unit for rent close to a supermarket and station etc, that you could actually afford on benefits as a bottom line as you establish your self with health supports.  That is what I did.  I had a child but serious neck issues and had to be able to feed my child, even when I could not drive.  20 years later I am still here.  It is a small little mall and not too stressful.  I can go other places when I drive, but always bottom line I had nobody else to depend on just myself.

Take Care

Apple