thank You so much for your reply it is so lovely to realise we are not alone.
im greatful we don't have children I can only imagain the complexity that adds.
we are starting couple counselling again this week, she is good at translating for me. But if I'm honest not sure how it will go as I think I know where I want to be. Like you.
But that is poor attitude so I'm going try be open minded.
good luck and please stay in touch.
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