Welcome to the forums.
I hear both of you and I am sorry you are in the positions that you are.
I can't tell you what to do only you can make that difficult decision and then live with it. I care for my son and there are days I would run away never to return so I understand completely how difficult things can be.
My advice if you stay...learn as much as you can about the conditions/s.
Ensure you pracrice self care, i.e. take time out for yourself, see a therapist, set boundaries. Communication is the key. Let them know your expectations, how you are feeling and tell them you expect the communication to be forthcoming in return.
I should add no relationship is a walk in the park, mental illness just adds another dimension. It's not all bad, my boy is gifted in so many ways and quite possibly the kindest most gentle person I have the pleasure of calling my son.
I hope that one day someone loves my boy enough to stick it out with him.
P.S to tag someone just out @ in front of the members name.
Happy to answer my questions you might have, hugs to you both 🤗🤗
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