Hey @outlander, if it's looking unlikely that your Pop will have respite approved through ACAT, AskIzzy (not sure if you've heard of it before) is a really helpful website with a database of community services- it can let you know if there are other options out there.
Just search "respite" and your Pop's postcode and have a look if any of the options accept referrals other than through ACAT. Good luck
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