I don't really have a lot to offer but I wanted to let you know that I hear you and I am sorry. It is very difficult when the parents are not on the same page.
I am not with my son's father so he is mostly out of the loop when it comes to decisions around my boy's needs. He does not want to accept there is an issue nor will tell anyone/talk about it
This has a MASSIVE negative impact on my boy's headspace. I tread carefully but I have emailed info around his conditions in the hope they are read.
I guess we all re-act/cope differently when things are not "perfect" for our kids
Sending you love x
Tagging @Faith-and-Hope as she might be able to provide you with more insight/help x
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