Peregrinefalcon here - one of the forum moderators. Welcome to the forums!
It sounds like you're experiencing a really difficult situation. We can feel so helpless at times when caring for someone with a mental illness.
You are in good company here - I trust your peers will soon provide you with some support and advice (sometimes it can take a little bit of time!).
Take care of yourself
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