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In this week’s forum we’ll be talking about the very real feelings of overwhelm and anxiety that can overcome you when you finally start work.
These are completely normal and to be expected; everyone experiences some adjustment anxiety. But when you have MI, if you haven’t got your strategies in place or your mental health toolbox/network sorted out, it can be an even more difficult time.
This week, let’s explore what it takes to make it through those first few weeks and months in a new work environment. I’m sure of our contributors will also provide good ideas.
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Just thinking now about some of the things I have in my toolbox for coping with any stressful situation which would also be useful for work related overwhelm ...
- Exercise - I love walking but if I wasn't as mobile maybe weights or a punching bag. The punching bag might be good because it's something that helps with frustration - you can hit the bag while you imagining the thing that is stressing you out!
- Body work - Pilates or Yoga is also good for relieving stress and centering yourself. What about simple stretches WHILST you're at work? This can help too (remember that cortisol is building when you're stressed, the only way to get rid of it is through movement)
- Meditation - I've mentioned this before ... go to a stall in the work bathroom and do a five minute mediation exercise when things start to get stressful. Do it for yourself at home too to maintain a calmer state of mind ...(after the punching bag)
- Deep breathing - Do this as you feel the stress build up. It can be done anywhere and is private and very effective, as you do either picture something very pleasing (a happy place) or count up or down either way. I like to do the Slow Breathing technique, in for 4, hold for 2 then out for 6.
- De-stress on the way to/from work: Music is calming and distracting, listen to something that is comforting or reminds you of good times (get that Dopamine going).
- Use YouTube on the way to/from work: I started doing this a long time ago and still keep it up when I'm stressed .. .When on my way to new jobs I would put on YouTube meditations or talks by people I love listening to (Tony Robbins!). This way I was actively doing something with my mind, rather than worrying and it gave me something to do.
- To de-stress after you leave work (or anywhere): Start mentally planning your evening. Take a less stressful route, if the highway is always backed up, then take a longer but less annoying route. Stop for dinner before you head home so that you make the drive during a less stressful time of day. Consider changing your work hours to avoid rush hour.
- Consider a daily gratitude practice: We don't really discuss this much but I like the idea of using writing for therapy, that means I write what I'm grateful for in a diary every other day and this instantly takes me to a more pleasant place mentally. I also write lots of other nonsense ... but
that's ok, it's all about reducing stress and changing my mindset. - De-brief with a good therapist: Book in an evening phone consultations with your therapist. It's invaluable if you find someone you trust and can do that with then do it. I have gauged it's helpful for clients to debrief their day, there are many online or telephone services that offer counselling not just emergency (LifeLine) help. Think about it ... I was once asked on this forum how do I find a good therapist? Trial and error is the answer as with all services
How about you? Do you do anything more specific to work? Anything different?
I hope there's a new or helpful idea in there for you...
And hugs 
to you if you're having a down day ... if any of this is affecting you!! Remember we're here for a chat .. i'm here til 5
