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[BlueBay]

Hi everyone 

@Faith-and-Hope @Zoe7 @Razzle @Shaz51 @Owlunar @Former-Member @Ant7 

its my day off tiday and sll I’ve done is been out all day. Just got home. 

Dentist this morning. Haven’t been fir two years. Just needed a clean. 

Then Chiro fir my groin and hip pain. He cant understand why I’m getting this pain. 

Had to psy some bills snd buy a few things at Kmart. 

Did grocery shopping and got home now with my d and Ayla. Hubby rings me angrily and says the front door wasn’t locked. It was closed but nit locked. So he’s ranting and raving - I said ok snd hung up on him. Then as we walk in the door he says “did you buy dog food” oops I forgot. Omg it’s the end of the world. Complained about the eggs I bought the small ones. Then complained that I only bought one pkt of toilet tolls instead of two. 

I csn never win. Always frigging complaining. So he’s gone now to buy dog food. 

Even my daughter says he complains all the time snd cslls him a sook. 

I’m sitting now eith a ciffee. So no rest day off for me today. 

No wonder why I get angry. 

[Zoe7]

It is good that your daughter can see that he is always complaining too @BlueBay - validates your feelings and that is a good thing. It doesn't change his attitude but it must make you feel good that someone else can see what you have been living with too.

[Ant7]

@BlueBay  It sucks when you work hard and it’s not appreciated I can certainly relate to that at times ❤️

[BlueBay]

@Ant7 @Zoe7 @Faith-and-Hope @Razzle @Shaz51 

I’m ready to explode right now 

very soon I can see I will lose it really bad 

[Shaz51]

It is good that your daughter can see that he is always complaining too my sister @BlueBay 

big breath my sister , sitting with you , holding you xoxo

[Zoe7]

Maybe that isn't a bad thing @BlueBay - maybe hubby needs to see that to pull back on his behaviour a bit.

[Faith-and-Hope]

Can you take a walk @BlueBay ? Or a shower ?  

Do something to deal with the angry feelings cos it’s not doing your blood pressure any good, and you mean a lot to us here.  Get busy with something and burn off the anger.  Deal with him later when you have calmed down.  Now is the time to look after you ❤️

[BlueBay]

I’m sitting quietly watching tv and doing some crochet. 

@Faith-and-Hope @Zoe7 @Shaz51 

Hubby in study on computer. 

I will be ok. Xxx

[Shaz51]

sitting with you my sister @BlueBay  xoxo

[Faith-and-Hope]

Hugs @BlueBay ❤️